This is a message to everybody, because I know most people tend to do this. You can’t go through life afraid to make your fantasies reality. You can’t be afraid to ask, because then it will never happen.

What would I have done, you ask?

First, I would incorporate asphyxia into the sexual conversation. During sex talk, you’ll find plenty of connections you can make. Introduce the idea by drawing a parallel between sex and asphyxia.

Next, I would “sell” her on the benefits of asphyxia, without coming off as creepy or needy.

If she reacts positively about it, it shouldn’t be too hard to convert her to a choked chick next time you’re alone with her. If she reacts negatively, you know, immediately, that she’s not worth your time.

“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done in bed.”

(Share stories, but NOTHING that sounds perverted. DO NOT MENTION ASPHYXIA at this point.)

“Have you ever heard of erotic asphyxia? A lot of women have men (choke / strangle / hang / drown / etc.) them during sex to heighten the orgasm. They say it makes sex a lot better.”

(If she reacts negatively, lose the chick. If she reacts positively, choke the chick.

I’m here to help like minded people explore these fantasies, but wouldn’t you much rather do it in real life? Learn how to exude confidence and become attractive. Get girls to do what you want to do. Choking chicks is not perverted. Everybody knows what erotic asphyxia is. Find a willing participant, and play safe.

You may be wondering, “How do I find a choked chick?”

Online? I wouldn’t recommend it. What you see is never what you get. Jerk off online; meet choked chicks in person.

Clubs? It’s always a good place to find freaks, but the environment makes it difficult because women always have their defenses up. If you know the art of attraction, you can find a choked chick, or a girl you can turn into a choked chick, every single night.

Public settings? This is generally the easiest place to pick up women. Learn how to gauge a woman’s freakiness. We want women that are wild and exotic in bed, but also have a “good girl” reputation. Look out for the closet freaks. Get girls with no STD’s that let you choke them till they scream.

Never, ever, force a girl to play the breath control game. Always set the rules before playing. People keep asking me to chat online about asphyxiation fantasies. I don’t need any more of those than I already have. If you want to talk about making your fantasy reality, hit up the guestbook, and I’ll do everything I can to help.

This is another response to a Harmless Fantasy Coming to Life and What a Feeling.